What does ‘Having it all’ really mean?

An interesting debate has been raging after Anne-Marie Slaughter’s article in the Atlantic magazine was published. She left her post as policy advisor to Hilary Clinton, citing family commitments as her reason for leaving.

Noel Whelan in last Saturday’s Irish Times gave a male perspective on the issue. I welcome his input and wish that the issue of gender balance in politics was debated more as a societal issue rather than a ‘womans’ issue.

He is correct in my view that the idea that men have it all is inaccurate. Balancing work and parenting is tricky especially if one is in a demanding job. It is made all the harder if there is a need to be away from home.

When debating the caring aspects that need to be delivered I think as a society we need to think in terms of a merging of the public forum which is work and business and was previously the domain of men  and is now a mixture of both, with the private space of home and family which was the domain of women but should now also be a mixture of both.

We have in my view ‘imported’ equality from the EU without having a proper debate about what equality means. I understand it to mean that we are supported to have the capacity to participate fully in a good society which includes in the world of work, the political forum and the home environment as well.

 

Midsummer event fantastic success

Well done to everyone at last night’s 5050 group midsummer event in Cork. Thanks go to Margaret O Keeffe, Margaret Desmond, Cora Burke, Fiona Collins and Deirdre O Halloran for all their hard work in putting the event together (apologies if I have left any helpers out).  Thanks also to the Chateau – the only pub on Patrick Street, for the use of their lovely room upstairs. It was a chance for us all to come together and take stock of what we have achieved over the past couple of years.

We are all volunteers, with full time jobs etc so busy doesn’t even come close. But we are enthusiastic about our cause and so we go the extra mile. Thanks to those who spoke about how we can improve our message about the need for more women in politics.

This is a societal issue. A more gendered balanced Dail is good for everyone. A Dail that suits both women and men. Ciaran Lynch spoke about the 3E’s necessary for politics – Energy, Enthusiasm and Enjoyment. Margaret Linehan spoke about the difficulties for women and the need to keep pushing the boundaries. Tony O Connor offered advice on how to make ourselves more visible. Fiona Buckley reminded us of how well we have done and how easy it is to be knocked off course. Deirdre O Shaughnessy spoke about the importance of making sure our message is heard.

We are hopeful that the legislation on gender quotas for candidate selection will be passed before the summer recess. It is coming into the Dail on the 4th July and it will then go to committee stage. Depending on the number of amendments etc that are tabled it should pass before the Dail breaks for the summer. We plan to mark that special event so keep your diaries open!!

We are grateful to all our supporters who have made their contributions in whatever way. Gender balance in all decision making is important and no more so than in how we govern our country. So come on all you enthusiastic, energetic females – politics can be enjoyable – as last night’s event proved.